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Remember the people who matter.

Selfless is a private relationship journal that helps you show up for the people in your life.

Releasing May 12, 2026

Great social skills have always belonged to a privileged few. For many people, especially those who find socializing effortful, genuine presence requires deliberate effort that most tools don't support.

Selfless was built by a developer who couldn't find the right tool for the job and decided to create their own. What started as a personal solution became something bigger, because the need to remember people and show up for them felt too universal.

Selfless is built around the belief that technology should help us be more human, not less.

Democratizing Social Fluency

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Build a personal Page for everyone who matters. Capture details, moments, and context across twelve dynamic card categories. Color-coded Highlights give you an at-a-glance picture of every relationship so you always know where you stand and what to bring up next. Set reminders for birthdays and events. Use Focus Levels to stay intentional about who deserves your attention right now.

Selfless reads business cards directly into your contacts and works equally well as a professional networking tool. Managers use it to stay attuned to their team as people, not just roles.

Your data stays yours. No servers, no accounts, no tracking. Everything lives on your device, backed up privately through iCloud.

It's not about how many people you know. It's about how much they feel seen.